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Motivation It is a compilation of two words (motive+action) motive for action. It is a driving force that encourages us to take action. It is an igniting spark to encourage us towards our goals. Can you motivate someone?  Absolutely not, No we can't motivate anyone. We can only inspire, encourage and support people to motivate themselves but we can't motivate them. Why? Because motivation is a inspired action. We can only inspire but we can't act for anyone. They have to act for themselves. And taking actions can only take us to new heights. Inspiration is thinking and when our thinking changes, it reflects in our actions and behaviour. If pain is greator than action it is a demotivator to actions. If gain is greator than pain it is a motivator.  Motivation is of two types:- • External External motivation comes from outside. External motivation can be helpful in short term. But for long run it can't help. It comes with a duration limit. It only lasts till your physical

  What do you think what makes you fight your battles?  Some people might suggest things like hard work, focus, persistence, resilience etc. But if we study on more deeper level, research shows that these are all byproducts of something else, something is there that is more powerful and special which we can develop.               Have you ever experienced the days in your lives when you even struggled to show up? What helps you there? What helps a person with depression? What helps a person suffering from havoc serious disease? What helps a person in Coma?  It's Belief , yes you heard it right.  Believing in yourself can make you do miracles in your life. It is something which is learned over the life. According to neuroscience, our brain is malleable. We can transform it into any form of choice. Every time we see everything falling apart in our lives, we face a series of rejections and lots of setbacks. That's the exact time when we have to believe in ourselves the most. It

I and you all have been judged by someone.Or might be, we are judging someone both the scenario can be true. What judging someone means? Making an rigid image or opinion about a particular person by just knowing some certain incidences.Jugdement comes by a fact might be you seem or consider yourself better than that certain person in that particular factor. Be curious instead of being judgemental.          We literally have no idea what that particular person have been through. We have no idea what they have faced or facing right now. Before judging, make sure to took a step back before forming an image and Try to ask yourself "What happened to them?" What's the reason? Why they reacted the certain way? According to child psychology, whatever happened to a person in their childhood is the reason of who they become today. For whatever you are judging a person might be due to their childhood trauma or abuse that have made them whatever they are today.A child always carries

  Character Character is a person's core values, beliefs and personality which is simply reflected by their thoughts, behaviour and actions. Character is the foundation upon which all else is built, either societal image, your relationship/friendships or the success. Character is the only key which will make you earn trust, respect among people's hearts around you . Which in turn leads to good relationships and peace of mind. Some traits of a person with character:-                                                                                            •They are confident without arrogance.      •They considers others thoughts, situations and are understanding.      •They accepts responsibilities without making excuses.      •They accepts and learns from their past mistakes.      •They never builds themselves by destroying others.      •They know that courtesy and good manners takes small sacrifices.      •Character has nothing to do with money, looks and fame.      •They ar

What is attitude? Attitude is basically the way we perceive the world and everything around us.The way we think the way we act in situations. How do we treat people around us? What conversations do we have with our colleagues? All of our actions tells much more about our attitude towards others. Our attitude is basically a reflection of our mind and soul. Let's have a look to the picture below. What were the thoughts you had in your brain while observing the image or what things grab your attention? •Some people's attention is might be on the monument and the buildings architect. Hence, the architectural view. •Some people's observation might be on the paintings on the wall. That's what the art lovers view. •Some might have observed the beggar in image. That's what empaths view with glimpse of philosophy behind it. •Some might be calculating the expenses that might be done on monument by the owner. That's what money seekers does in their life. So, what you perce

  Why do we fail ?  I personally believe in 4D's are the major reason for your failure at macro level.Lets know about (4D's):- 1. Desire - As per studies, the one of the major reason of you lagging behind in your professional life might be your unwillingness of performing that particular job. Here, comes the factor of pride or the sense of achievement and accomplishment  which makes us feel contented after performing our job.If you are not feeling the sense of fulfillment after completing your tasks then you will surely struggle in performing your job after a certain period which will lead to a failure. "Great talent without willpower is a waste." That's why it's must that you willingly perform your jobs. 2. Direction :-There is an another reason why you might be not getting your desired results in your life which I personally feel the most specific one, people keep on performing the jobs whatever they are suggested to do or whatever falls in their path of lif