Character

 Character

Character is a person's core values, beliefs and personality which is simply reflected by their thoughts, behaviour and actions. Character is the foundation upon which all else is built, either societal image, your relationship/friendships or the success. Character is the only key which will make you earn trust, respect among people's hearts around you. Which in turn leads to good relationships and peace of mind.

Some traits of a person with character:-                                                                                          •They are confident without arrogance.

     •They considers others thoughts, situations and are understanding.

     •They accepts responsibilities without making excuses.

     •They accepts and learns from their past mistakes.

     •They never builds themselves by destroying others.

     •They know that courtesy and good manners takes small sacrifices.

     •Character has nothing to do with money, looks and fame.

     •They are the one with a gentle word, a kind look and a good natured smile.

     •They are the one walking with elite and class yet by maintaining a common touch.

     •They are courageous, stands against the wrong.

     •They are comfortable and confident with oneself and make others comfortable too.

     •They are the one with full of kindness.

     •They are trustworthy and dependable.        

"Character is not inherited it is built by oneself":-                                                                                                                                                               Character can be built it's never ever too late to fix it. It's an never ending process. Character building starts from infancy and goes on until death .There are many pitfalls in path of our lives. But our character and efforts not let us fall into them.                                                                                                                                                                   Our  life is like a garden and we are the gardener it's our responsibility to make continuous efforts to remove weeds (flaws/faults) which got implanted in our lives due to some negative influences. Negative influences will keep on planting their faults in our lives. But it's our responsibility to weed out. And  here comes the role of character, helps us to keep on building  and developing our lives by fixing flaws.      

How to mark a person with character:-                                                                                                                                                                  Easiest way to mark character  of a person is how he behaves when things are not going well. When things goes well it's easy to be kind, generous, caring and logical. But when things aren't going well as planned and everything seems to be messed up, when we are under a lots of pressure, some people can't think clearly and snap at others around them and destroys the things relationships and makes the situations even worse. Whereas, a person with character remains clear headed and continue to treat others with respect.

                                                                                                                ~Kalpana saini